Why is it so hard to get over someone that never even loved you? Why is it no one understands your pain? Why is they never understand that when we say “I’m fine”, it’s always a lie? Why is it we’ve been telling people “I’m fine” for so long, they never even see behind the mask we wear? We get pushed to the limit, we break and we do the same thing over and over again and they still never figure it out.
When you’re just waiting to get home into your room, close the door, fall into bed. Just let everything out that you kept in all day. That feeling of desperation. You’re tired. Tired of everything, tired of nothing. You just want someone to be there and tell you it’s ok. But no one is going to be there. You know you have to be strong for yourself, because no one can fix you. But you are tired, tired of being strong. For once, you just want it to be easy, to be simple, to be helped, to be saved. But you know you won’t be. But you’re still hoping, still wishing. And you’re staying strong and fighting with tears in your eyes. You are fighting.
It’s funny how a hello is always accompanied with a goodbye. It’s funny how good memories can make you cry.
It’s funny how forever never seems to last.
It’s funny how much you would lose if you forgot about your past.
It’s funny how friends can just leave when you’re down.
It’s funny how when you need someone, they’re never around.
It’s funny how people change and think they’re so much better.
It’s funny how some many lies are packed into a love letter.
It’s funny how one one night can hold so much regret.
It’s funny how you can forgive but not forget.
It’s funny how ironic life turns out to be.
But the funniest part of all is that none of that is really funny..
He has no idea what goes on through her mind. She’s so good at pretending. He’ll never know how many tears fallen each night for him or the endless hours that she wastes thinking about him, about everything. He’ll never know how hurt she is seeing him happy with someone else. He’ll has no idea how sad and hurt she is, because he’s busy looking and thinking about somebody else.
Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting. Arguments became phone calls. Feelings became subliminal messages online. Sex became easy. The word love gets used out of context. Insecurities have become your way of thinking. Getting jealous became a habit. Trust has been lost. Cheating became an accident. Leaving became the only option. And being hurt became natural.
If you have someone who understands you, who is patient with you, who loves you genuinely, who cares about you, who respects you, who is proud of you, who doesn’t take a day without calling or texting you, who never fails to fix time for you, who fears to lose you. Please love that person. Don’t take his/her care and love for granted, because such people are very rare to find these days. Don’t let such a person slip out of your hands over minor disagreements. If you are the one who’s wrong, admit and ask for forgiveness. Handle that person with delicacy. Be there for her/him. Do whatever it takes for both of you to last forever. Be open to that person. Don’t be so nagger to such a person. Be trustworthy, faithful and appreciative.
A relationship is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a pretty girlfriend. It’s not about trying to make things perfect because there are no perfect relationships. But it’s finding someone who matches you and would accept the worst of you and will go through everything without giving up on you.
It isn’t a fairytale or a story book and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it together.
This are the words of someone who is in a serious relationship and is madly inlove with his or her partner. The insecurity factor makes a person think that he might lose his beloved of his beloved starts liking someone else. This is why we say that relationships are a lot about mutual trust, faith and understanding. There are relationships in which both the partners are very clear about each other and want their relationship to eventually end in a marriage. Such partners who love each other truly, madly and deeply cannot stay without each other. They realize that they cannot afford to lose each other since they become an integral part of each other’s lives. None of us like to lose someone with whom we get attached or emotionally bonded. Especially couples who take their relationship seriously and invest a lot of emotions and time in it, cannot bear staying without each other, this is when these words come out from their mouth.
I’ve got to hand it out to the girls out there. The strong ones, those who never gave up, even if it hurt them so much inside. To those who put up with the tears and sleepless nights, the wasted hours and days waiting for his calls. To the girls who learned from the hurt and pain, bettered themselves. They’re not girls no more, they’re women. :)
Siguro nga ganon talaga ang buhay. Laging may masasabi ang mga tao sa bawat galaw o kilos mo, kabugihan man o kasamaan. Wala naman na din tayong magagawa dun e. Ganon na talaga ang takbo ng buhay ng tao. Hahanap at hahanap sila ng butas para lang may masabi sayo, maganda man o hindi. Kailangan nalang ng malawak na pag-unawa o pag-intindi. Pero minsan, kahit na gaano pa kalawak ang isipan ng isang tao para sa pag-intindi, wala pa din. Dadating at dadating ka sa point na sasabihin mong, “Ano bang ginawa kong masama?” “Tao lang din naman ako, hindi naman ako perpekto.” Oo nga at hindi naman talaga perpekto ang mga tao. Matuto tayong magbigay ng chance para patunayan nila na hindi naman talaga sila yung tipo ng tao na naiisip mo na sila. Lahat ng tao may kakulangan. Hindi magiging balanse ang buhay ng tao kung lahat tayo magpapataasan o magpapagalingan. Hindi naman contest o ano ang buhay na kailangan mong manalo. WALA KANG IBANG KALABAN KUNG HINDI ANG SARILI MO.